夢 世界

U know, at certain time most of us learned that it is a g0od idea to forgive people. This is because we knew that everyone is not perfect, No matter how good you are but well sure that you have done mistake before because all of us are not perfect. But, there is a more basic reason to forgive people other than knowing that everyone have done mistakes before, that is "If you don't forgive them, it ruins your life!!"

Want to know why it ruins your life ?_? here it goes:
>let say that (a) is your GF or your BF(if you are a girl la I'm boy so I use GF la^^) You and her have been together for quite a long time d but one day,unexpectly. you saw her with another guy holding hands and so on. what do you feel ?_? sure angry right^^ like wanna to explode nia^^ then later on, you and her break up due to this and you say to yourself that "I would not forgive you for treating me like this!!"

Yea, you say like that but who is the ones that suffers? Not her but YOU!! why??
you might think of it again and again N the more you think the more angry you become!! N lastly, your health will be affected because of that N your studies might gone down as well.....

While on the same time, she might be probably hanging out with others N having a normal and happy life because she already have break with you, what makes her need your forgiveness anymore?? You are nothing to her already but just an ex nia

So when you refuse to forgive people, you are like just making them guilty but do you think that they would feel it maybe a bit only la. While the rest impact goes to you, In fact, you are actually making yourself miserable only.....

Well, I understand that in certain condition, it is hard to forgive people on what they did on you but forgiving people does not mean that you have to forgive them completely in certain condition la, but to forgive is to just let something go so that your life can work on and not leads to miserable life. Which I mean that "You can say to yourself that, I will let it go for a moment, but I will still remembered it from time to time"

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~kenny~